Before I invite you into the room

This should be a good night for everybody.

By requesting an invitation, you're agreeing to treat the other people there with basic decency.

Respect people's boundaries.

If somebody isn't interested, leave it there.

No harassment, intimidation, unwanted touching or deliberately making someone uncomfortable.

No racism, homophobia, transphobia, sexism, religious discrimination or other behaviour aimed at making somebody feel unwelcome because of who they are.

Please don't arrive so intoxicated that somebody else has to look after you.

If I or the venue team ask you to stop doing something, or in a serious case ask you to leave, please do.

I don't expect to spend my 30th policing adults. I'd much rather be eating cake and shaking what my mama gave me.